• #12 Rules of life is a Stern,story -based ,stern,story based, entertaining self help manual for young people,that lays out set of  simple principles,which can help us become more disciplined, behave better,act with integrity, balance our lives while enjoying them as much as we can.

      ✓ Favourite quote from author...          

      "It's all very well to think the meaning of life is happiness,but what happen when your life is unhappy? Happiness is great side effect.when it comes, accept it greatfully.But it's fleeting and unpredictable"

                                            - By Jordan Peterson

      Let's I will explain you some important lessons  form this summry....


      Lessons no -1 -Before you judge the world,
      Take the responsibility for Your own life.

       It means.Life isn't fair.We all learn that way or other.some of us sooner,Some laters,Some in small ways some from terrifying blows.But  we all realize it eventually. Peterson tells that No matter how unfair life gets, You should never blame the world..

      Lessons no -2: Care for  yourself like you
      Would for loved one.Improve your mind..
                                
             

      It means have you ever gotten a prescription from the doctor and thought: Naa,, I don't need that?"Over one third of people do it regularly.According to Peterson,it's a suberversive form of self punishment.We do it lots as a result tend to take better care of others than ourselves..

      Peterson suggest this is a consequence of our inability to deal with the Insainty of life described above.. just like Adam and Eve had taste the forbidden fruit of knowledge,we too indulge in our dark sides from time to time and thus, feel we deserve punshiment. but as with the unfairness of the life, we all 
      Got thrown out of the garden of Eden. We all  carry both light and dark side inside us.One can't exist without other.

      That means instead of just striving for either one, we should seek balance, Which is why 
      His second rule is to Care for  yourself like you would care for loved one.Do what is best for you, even though it might not always make you Happy..


      Lesson no -3 Seek meaning through sacrifice,not happiness through pleasure....

      It means.. balancing your light and dark side can take many different forms.. Sometime it may be staying in bed to get healthy,even though you want to work.Other times, it might staying at work late on any days.. However it looks like, it always involves Choosing meaning by making sacrifice, rather than temporary happiness by choosing pleasure..

      ✓Now, let's move on "The 12 Rules of life"
      In which some more important line that I learned ..


      1. Stand up straight with your shoulder straight..

      2. Treat Yourself like someone else you are responsible for helping..

      3.Be friend people who want the best for you.

      4. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday not the another person.

      5. I'm not a product of my circumstances.
      I'm product of my decisions.

      6. I have learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

      7.When I was five Year old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life.
      When I went to school they asked me what I wanted to become, when you grew up. I wrote down "Happy" . They told me I didn't understand
      the assignment  and I told them they didn't understand life....

      8.The battles that count aren't. The ones for gold medals.The  struggles within your self, which is really !! Invisible battles inside all of us,
      That's where it's at..

      9. The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to be stop me.

      10. Our goals can only be reached through a vehicle of planning in which we must  vigourously act. There is no another route of success..

      11.To reach your destination,You need direction,but you can't get there without inspiration..

      12.Live !! Don't get exist, Don't drag through life.
      Live each day,even each momemt as a  celebration !!!!